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Frequently asked questions about mediation.
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General Mediation
Can only part of a dispute be settled at mediation?
Yes. Parties may resolve some claims or issues while leaving others for later negotiation, arbitration, or trial. A partial settlement can reduce litigation expense and simplify the remaining case.
Personal Injury
Can personal-injury cases be mediated?
Yes. Personal-injury cases are frequently mediated. The parties may address liability, comparative fault, medical treatment, future care, lost income, liens, insurance coverage, and damages. Insurance representatives commonly participate because insurance funds often drive settlement authority.
Probate, trust, and estate disputes
Can probate, trust, and estate disputes be mediated?
Yes. Mediation can be useful in will contests, trust disputes, fiduciary claims, beneficiary disagreements, guardianship matters, and property-distribution conflicts. It may preserve family relationships and permit creative arrangements that a court might not order.
General Mediation
Can something I say in mediation be used against me in court?
Usually, protected mediation communications cannot be used later to prove or disprove the merits of the dispute. This encourages candid discussion. But independently discoverable facts, documents, photographs, business records, and other evidence do not generally become protected merely because they were discussed or shown during mediation.
General Mediation
Can the mediator give me legal advice?
A mediator should not act as legal counsel for either side. Even when the mediator is a lawyer, the mediator represents neither participant. The mediator may discuss issues, ask questions, explain process, and sometimes evaluate litigation risks, but that is different from giving one party individualized legal advice.
General Mediation
Can the mediator meet privately with one side before mediation?
Possibly. Pre-mediation calls are common for scheduling, background, and process planning. Substantive private communications may also occur if the mediator's rules permit them and confidentiality is understood.
General Mediation
Can the parties waive a mediator conflict?
Sometimes. If a disclosed relationship does not make impartial service impossible, the parties may agree to proceed after informed disclosure. The mediator must still independently determine whether serving would be ethically appropriate.
General Mediation
Does a mediator have to be a lawyer?
No, not universally. Mediators come from legal, business, mental-health, accounting, engineering, human-resources, and other professional backgrounds. Lawyers and retired judges are common in litigated commercial matters, but legal training is not a nationwide requirement.
General Mediation
Does a mediator have to be certified?
Not in every private mediation. Parties may often select any mutually acceptable neutral. Court-connected mediation is different: courts and state ADR agencies may require particular training, certification, registration, mentoring, or continuing education.
General Mediation
Does mediation save money?
It often can. Successful mediation may reduce attorney time, discovery, depositions, expert fees, motion practice, trial preparation, and business disruption. The savings depend on when mediation occurs and how complex the case is.
General Mediation
Does the mediator tell the judge what happened?
Ordinarily, the mediator does not tell the judge what was said, who made particular offers, or why settlement failed. In a court-connected matter, the mediator may be permitted or required to report limited administrative information, such as whether mediation occurred, whether the case settled, or whether required participants attended.
General Mediation
Do I have to settle at mediation?
No. A party generally retains the right to reject a settlement proposal and continue with litigation, arbitration, or another available process. A mediator can encourage compromise and reality-test positions, but ordinarily cannot compel agreement.
General Mediation
Do I need a lawyer at mediation?
Not always. Some parties mediate without counsel, particularly in smaller or community disputes. In significant litigation, however, independent counsel can help evaluate legal rights, settlement terms, taxes, releases, liens, and future consequences. The mediator cannot substitute for a lawyer who represents your interests.
General Mediation
How do I choose a good mediator?
Consider the mediator's experience with the type of dispute, mediation training, neutrality, reputation, communication style, availability, fees, and ability to understand the relevant legal and factual issues. Ask whether the mediator is primarily facilitative, evaluative, or flexible in approach.
General Mediation
How long does mediation take?
There is no standard duration. A simple dispute may resolve in a few hours. Complex commercial, construction, medical-malpractice, employment, or multiparty cases may require a full day or several sessions. The number of parties, complexity, emotional intensity, information available, and distance between positions all affect duration.